No prayer is unanswered: God bless, Mindanao.

photos from google.

What can be more heart-breaking than seeing what our fellowmen are going in through down South especially this Christmas time? Yes, to most of us we are all excited for the coming Christmas and eager to get our gifts and new set of clothes, etc. But to some Filipinos, this will be the most depressing Christmas perhaps. If you have no idea on what I am talking about, go to Google and search for ''typhoon Sendong''. Filipinos down South (Cagayan de Oro and Iligan City) experienced one of the most devastating moments of this year. What breaks my heart more is that it happened on Christmas time. I can not imagine how my fellowmen will be able to overcome those. I can not imagine how they will still try to be positive and move on. It's sad. I know, we all know, that no matter how much we struggle, everything will be alright because everything happens for a reason. We lost not just one hundred lives but more than 600-700 lives and still many are missing. How heart-breaking it is to some families to lose their loved ones this Christmas. They need help.

Heart-breaking, isnt it? Now tell me, what is your struggle this Christmas? Want me to tell you mine?

My mom will not be coming home for Christmas but  still..she manages to send us what we need, more than what we need. My brother, Kuya Frank who works in Dubai, will not be home aswell, but still manages to give his family what they need. In short, I wont have a complete family this Christmas. I havent had any complete family for  more than 5 years (I'm not sure but its more than that). But.. I know they are in good hands, they have good set of clothes, they have someone abroad to comfort them. Well atleast, that is the most important thing. But those families in Mindanao, mothers and fathers lost their child, some lost their friends, a lot died and many families share the same sorrow of losing the people that they love this time of the year..--- no more complete family. No more days to look forward to as a complete family. 

I dont have the most beautiful clothes this Christmas, and I struggle getting new clothes. BUT, what can be more struggling than losing your home? Yes, its tragic. Our fellowmen down south lost their homes and other possessions brought by this typhoon. By losing their home, they lost their clothes,appliances, etc. some had their cars broken, establishments were affected. 

Now, if you think you have the biggest problem in the world, THINK. You are too blessed. We are too blessed. If we cant send them clothes, food, etc, the least thing we can do is to pray for them. Its a tough time for them. Remember, we've been really blessed this year and a prayer wont hurt us. May our fellowmen see light in the toughest time of their lives. Let us pray for them. No prayer is unanswered. 

.No matter how bad we see life, no matter how we feel devastated, I'm sure God has His own reasons. God Bless, Mindanao. God bless our nation.

Check this out if you want to help. 

Ateneo de Manila and Xavier University-Ateneo de Cagayan: https://www.facebook.com/ateneodemanila and https://www.facebook.com/groups/39179551493/

Xavier University website: http://www.xu.edu.ph/index.php/other-news/642-bagyong-sendong-relief-operations-in-xavier-university

Southern Philippines Fundraising Campaign on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/events/182804068482386/

HELP CDO: http://helpcdo.com/

Info for those who want to help via Paypal:  http://sanasanz.com/2011/12/18/where-to-send-help-for-cagayan-de-oro-city-and-iligan-city/

Sky lanterns for sale (for fundraising) – info here: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=2595986992599&set=a.1282202068797.39914.1642448136&type=1&ref=nf

SAGIP KAPAMILYA: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=292446154126012&set=a.109389565765006.5803.109288295775133&type=1&ref=n

the little kid

Hello, Misa De Gallo!

Time check: 5:45am of Decembe 16.

This has got to be one of my favorite mornings. I woke up early. Yes, early as 2:30 in the morning and did prep up for the first day of Misa de Gallo (Simbang Gabi). I had to take a cold bath to keep me going. As soon as I got nearer at the church, I felt this little excitement. Yes, it's Christmas time!! I love to see families, groups of friends, couples, older people going to church at four o'clock in the morning. The church was full, well it has always been every Misa de Gallo. I am excited to complete the 9-dawn masses not because I wanted to make a wish but because of my heart is into doing it. I grew up attending the Simbang Gabi here in our chapel but it was four years ago when I decided to attend the dawn masses, and I got hooked into it. I got a couple of wishes before, and with those wishes I promised to make it a point (if I can and my schedule will permit me) to attend the 9-dawn masses. I see it as time to give back and ofcourse, sacrifice something. Even if I get to attend it alone, I still get to feel the spirit of Christmas. Same old feeling. 

I've been very blessed this year, my prayers were answered. I graduated on time and got my diploma, I passed the Board Exam (Take One), I got my first job and was paid very well, I quit work to continue my journey as a nurse !Plus, I got my license this year. What else can I ask for? I'm contented with my gadgets, with the way I look..with who I am. I have a beautiful and supportive family, I have a boyfriend for four yeaes who always supports and loves me and his family loves me too, I have my real friends around, I have my nephews, my Lolo is in a good state,&& even if my mom couldnt come for Christmas I know everything will be okay and I know there's a perfect timing. I know I'll be in the hospital soon. What else? 

I dont consider of making a wish this time. I know God works in mysterious ways. I want to spend 9dawns, thanking Him. When I look at families, I picture myself with my future kids and husband attending the 4am mass. I picture my family with Mama, Papa, my siblings, in laws and nephews. I see a beautiful world. 

Its also The National Youth Day. To the youths, just in case you get to read this: Please enjoy your life. Boyfriends, Girlfriends, they come in perfect timing. Dont look for it. While you're on school, enjoy being a student. Stop bullying others. Enjoy. Enjoy your gifts, and most of all, love yourself. Extend your hands to those in need. Go to parties but study harder. Respect others. When you get to be with others who dont have the same belief as yours, repect them. Pray and be closer to God. Dont act too much like adults, enjoy it. Dont waste a part of your life that you can never get back. Life is so good. Its beyond beautiful. You have to see it. Again, love yourself, enjoy and share your gifts, and build a relationship with the Lord. Kanya kanya naman tayo ng trip eh, basta sana wag mo lang sayangin isang portion sa buhay mo na di mo na mababalik. 

As for me, as a youth, I do the same. Life is good and we have an awesome God.

I hope we all enjoy this time of the year :)

So I guess I'm done here. Thanks to my hot choco from Mcdo for keeping me company while writing! 

Love,

the little kid

Bon Voyage!

I just got home from NAIA Terminal 1. The Vergara brothers are leaving supposedly by 12am but their flight will be 4hours delayed. Anyway, I just want to share our last photos of this year. I am really excited for him and his family. Bon Voyage, Baby and see you on January 9! 

Enjoy your 3 and a half weeks vacation in London, baby!

I'm sure this will be one of your happiest holidays ever!

I miss you already but I am more excited for you!

May God bless their trip! Yay!

xxx

Killing Time!

Hi there! Its December 12 already! Time flies! It is 2:32 in the morning and yes, I'm still up and I just finished our anniversary video. Since Patten and I wouldn't be able to spend our 4th year anniversary together, we thought of making a video of our memories, of reasons why we made it this far. 4th Year anniversary will be on the 29th of this month. Goodnews is, Patten and his brother Kuya Patrick will be spending the holidays in London with their family! Ya-hoo! I am just so glad for them. Family comes first, right? And we really prayed for this. They'll be leaving on Wednesday so hoping for a smooth flight! Anyways, I'll be posted the video soon! (still publishing it though).

How was your week by the way? I had a tiring but fun one! I did a little Christmas shopping, and tried to spend my weekend with Patten and his family because I won't be seeing him for more than three weeks. I'm not really sad because I really want him to spend this favorite season of the year with his family☺

By the way, my Kuya Doods, my nephew Dominic & my sister-in-law Ate Melba with a beautiful baby in her tummy will be coming home for Christmas!! Yehey! Although Mama & my Kuya Frank wouldnt be able to make it, we should still celebrate Christ's birth! There's Skype & everything is possible now ☺

On the other hand, I am dog-ass sleepy but I really want to finish this so I am keeping my fingers crossed. *he-he*. I feel like writing this makes me a high school student. 

So see you on my next post! Have tons to write. See you & Goodmornight (Ha-ha)☺

xxx

the little kid

Thank You & Goodbye.

The rain is pouring hard outside and I just got home. I have a news for you, TLKC! I'm cleared at work. Yes, what you're thinking is right. I decided to quit on working in the Call Center and now I can finally say ''Thank you for the memories, Alorica.'' I've been trying to clear everything up since Friday but there were some miscommunications with the sched, and I also tried it last night. By the way, I was with Merrill who also decided to leave. Anyway, even if we waited from 7:30-11:40pm, we're happy to know that we're done. Really done. 

While waiting, we stayed at the pantry and gave some of the people I met there loads of hugs. Gaah, I missed them. I really did. It was so nice to know that you were loved somehow. Even if I only spent 3 months there, I really felt I was loved. Even up to the point when people knew that we decided to leave, they still showed how happy they are for us.Wow. I must say that it was really a fun and worth learning experience. I guess what really made my stay in the company worth remembering was the people that I got to be with. I know this maybe too personal, but I had my own reasons and I want to share w/ you guys the few lines in my letter to the company.

'' ...............I came up to the point where I can not really go to work because I realized that I can not really do something when my heart is not into. I am thankful for the company for the chance that you have given me from the very beginning. Your company has been really nice to me as well as the people that I got to work with. With that, I want to be always at my best when I'm dealing with the  customers but I realized I can no longer do the job. I want to give my customers the best of customer service but it was hard when your heart is not into it and I never want to bring down the company that has put a lot of trust in me. 


From the moment I got here, I have always been grateful to Alorica. In return, with full honesty I want to let you know that I can no longer continue the work that I started. From the time that I left the company, I got the chance to rest and think harder. Now, I am more determined to continue my journey as a Registered Nurse. 


I will be forever grateful of Alorica and its employees for all the things I have learned here that I will never forget. ''


Knowing that everything's okay, I know I have to move on and continue my journey as a Registered Nurse. 


Working in the call center taught me alot of things. You have to learn how to play the game so you'll win. In my case, I realized it was enough for me to play the wrong game and it's time to play the game that I love with passion.


To the people that I met there from my CLIP family to PST and A-Bay,( to my trainers, co-trainees), to the employees who were very nice to me, to the supervisors who have been really nice, qa, my supervisor and the members of our team, to the people in the pantry and security, clinic people, hr people, THANK YOU. Also, to the customers that I had the chance to talk to, thank you! It was my pleasure to serve you. 

PS. I'm grateful and i will always be.

PPS. I've got tons of good news but let's take it slow. 

PPPS. Remember this? God answers in three ways. 

First, He says Yes and gives you what you want. 

Second, He says no and gives you something better.

Third, He says Wait and gives you the best. 

Thank You and Goodbye, Alorica.

the little kid

Friday with old friends.

Hi. How did you spend your Friday?

I woke up past 10 in the morning and read my friend's text message saying that we'll meet up at 1pm and head out to the office. I immediately wrote and typed in my letter to my previous company. Fast forward to 1pm, I met up with Merrill and I was really really glad to see him again!!! We had our letters printed and headed to the office. The guard was of course, very welcoming. Unfortunately, the HR dept was on a lunch break so Merrill thought of going on the floor and we'll try out our luck if we'll get to see some of the people we know. Fortunately, there were 4-5 people on the floor that I know. I gave them hugggs! I missed them and seeing them smile when they saw us, wow! I was really touched. We went back at HR but it happened that there was a problem with the sched given to us so we decided to go back next week and hope that everything will turn out just fine. What I really love about the work that I had in the call center--the people that I got to be with. It was different. Those people changed my point of view in the call center industry. I may never go back but I will forever cherish what I've learned there and I must say I really had a great time! 

our last shots at the pantry. Ha-ha. The server at the pantry likes us a lot and often mistakenly thinks that Merrill and I are a couple and she took our photos. Ha-ha. I'm sorry Ate but I'm glad to be in a relationship w/ Patten and Merrill is just one of my closest guy friends. 

Fast forward...Merrill and I decided to go and watch a movie, and we were just ontime for Happy Feet Two! I love the lessons that were taught on the film, it was cute and the lessons were just really timely for us. 

After the meet up with Merrill, i bumped into my bestfriend for almost 10 years now, Carlo and his other best friend, Strawberry and chatted. I've never spent so much time with Carlo for the longest time!! Last time that I spent time with him was in College, 2007 I think. Carlo Maglinao is one of the smartest and coolest men I've known!! He's been my best bud since grade school and even if we were in different sections in high school we never failed to take care of the friendship that we built. When we got into college, things became so different but the friendship remains the same. We knew that  we will always be the best of friends and I think that is one of the blessings of having real friends around you. I missed you, bebest! Thanks for the treat! I know you'll be my best friend forever.

Carlo, Me, Strawberry ''marwen''

I loved this day because I got to see my old friends. I know they love me and I love them very much. 

I'm glad I made other people smile today. 

                                                           xxx