I'm a total bummer today, tomorrow and the day aftre tomorrow. So I was thinking of something to blog about since I've been blog-spot dead for a couple of weeks. First thing that I thought of was something to say about my current relationship.
A friend told me that, she thought that my relationship with Patten was pure fun and enjoyment, no hassles no struggles. I laughed. Hearing that kind of stuff was okay. If people only know our relationship's struggles, I bet they'd be absolutely shocked, technically disappointed, and literally speechless. If only people would know.
Yes, we get along with our 'close friends'. Yes, our closest friends know when we're struggling. Yes, we share kick ass times with the people so close to us. Yes, we're funny, sometimes hilarious, matured-but-immature, etcetera. But we're still a private couple. We really are. The toughest times of our relationship shook us, tore us, broke us, made us less a person, but........made us literally stronger and way better. We are still young and learning. We win, we lose. But our relationship isn't just like that, it's all about gaining and learning. You win, you gain. You lose, you learn.
What would a relationship be if all in it will be pure fun and enjoyment? The answer: It'll definitely be Boring.
Two months ago, we had the time to reflect on somethings we needed to reflect on. Our relationship needed a space. Blah blah. Soon enough, we fixed the things that have been left broken for years. Couldnt be any happier. I'm glad we started as friends. I'm glad the 7 years of friendship contributes a lot to our relationship's foundation. I'm glad and proud that I am his girlfriend for almost 3 years.
A friend told me that, she thought that my relationship with Patten was pure fun and enjoyment, no hassles no struggles. I laughed. Hearing that kind of stuff was okay. If people only know our relationship's struggles, I bet they'd be absolutely shocked, technically disappointed, and literally speechless. If only people would know.
Yes, we get along with our 'close friends'. Yes, our closest friends know when we're struggling. Yes, we share kick ass times with the people so close to us. Yes, we're funny, sometimes hilarious, matured-but-immature, etcetera. But we're still a private couple. We really are. The toughest times of our relationship shook us, tore us, broke us, made us less a person, but........made us literally stronger and way better. We are still young and learning. We win, we lose. But our relationship isn't just like that, it's all about gaining and learning. You win, you gain. You lose, you learn.
What would a relationship be if all in it will be pure fun and enjoyment? The answer: It'll definitely be Boring.
Two months ago, we had the time to reflect on somethings we needed to reflect on. Our relationship needed a space. Blah blah. Soon enough, we fixed the things that have been left broken for years. Couldnt be any happier. I'm glad we started as friends. I'm glad the 7 years of friendship contributes a lot to our relationship's foundation. I'm glad and proud that I am his girlfriend for almost 3 years.
TRUE STRENGTH will keep everything together. Everything.
Patten and I: We're clowns on our own. We're annoying bummers. We're not a hot-shot couple. We get unfocused. We are not-so-miserable. We may commit mistakes. We share harebrained stuffs. We have numbers of differences.
.......But we have a loving heart. We enjoy and thank God for what we have. We're passionate. We teach each other. We share life's lessons. We share kick-ass moments. I am his and he is my Better half. We're secret warriors. and we are in this together. IF ONLY PEOPLE WOULD KNOW.
Every relationship (boyfriend-girlfriend, husband-wife) has its own struggles. Some have similarities, but we have different relationship stories inside.
I'm glad we're not a perfect couple. It would make us boring.
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