Today, I spent all day long in bed with the laptop and tv on. Since this morning, I was thinking on what to scribble here but nothing popped in my mind well until I got home from the mall and sat in the sofa and turned the laptop on again. Meannism 1 for the day: Cherish.
Last night before I hit the sheets, I tweeted this: ''Always cherish the people who love you, the people who remain true to you, & the people who care for you. Goodnight! ☮♥☺'' So I made up my mind, Im going to scribble out some thingamabobs regarding that.
I am the type of person who values everything, especially the people around me. I've been with different kinds of people. Judging isn't my thing so I always try to know others first. I've been with people who can not appreciate me. I've been with people who judge me in and out. I've been with people who try to influence me with their negative thinking towards others. I've been with people who look like angels in front of me but show their tails at my back. The most painful part is, I've been with people whom I thought can be trusted but in the end betrayed me. The most annoying part is, I've been with people who are just nice when they need you and still no matter how you do good things for them, they still wont show even a tiny bit appreciation.
But no matter what they return to me, I will only tell myself, ''It's Okay, just try not to be like them and never get tired of doing good things for others''. Blah Blah Blah. Wow, Look who's talking. It was just recently that I thought hard of it. It was just recently that I got sick of everything. It was just recently that I decided to focus more on the people who really appreciate me and truly care for me.
Because in this ever changing world that we are living in, the people who truly love you will always be by your side and will remain true to you, through the good and the bad times. No doubt.
I knew and I learned ever since that you can not please everybody. So you just have to be you and do what makes you happy. Have you ever heard of this? To be you in an ever changing world is the greatest accomplishment, and yes that's it.
To those who might have the chance to read this: its never too late to show the people that you love and care that you cherish them. There's a joy in the soul whenever you feel that someone out there cherishes you.
2nd Meannism: It wont matter if people will get along with you or not, as long as they respect who you are.
I've mentioned in one of my blog posts that I was about to apply for a job. And I got it. Just waiting for a call again.
So can I just share first how I got it?
It was at ACS Lipa. The first thing you do when you get there and apply is to put on your personal info and some other things written in a resume in the computer so you dont need to bring your resume. First Step was the Initial Interview, I was quite anxious of course. The interviewer asked me these questions: How did you know that we're hiring? What are the qualities that make you unique? What's your passion in life? Can you tell me about any incident in your life wherein you made others happy? What is a modem? What if Im a java man and Im about to log in to facebook, how will you instruct me? Are you willing to work here? What is your expected salary? and the last. If you were me, what other questions will you ask the applicant? WOW. I almost had epistaxis there. But I did my best and just remained true. I told the guy that I do not know anything about computers and troubleshooting but I am so willing to learn everything at hand. To cut the story short, I passed the initial interview and took another test. In that test, there are no right or wrong answers actually but you should really know what to do when you'll be faced with such situations. Its a good thing that we were really trained in Nursing how to attack questions such as 'what will be the most appropriate response' etc. There were questions like would you rather get along with your co-workers or its not important that you get along with them as long as they show you some respect, etc. So everything I answered was regarding my co-workers respecting me. I answered questions like that based from my own experience. So Yes, basically, I'll choose and Id want people to respect me, for who I am, for what I decide to be, and for what I decide to do.
To cut the story short, thank God i passed and he just told me to wait for their call. awesome.
So there are my two meannisms. Cherish every moment. Cherish the people who love you most, who care for you the most. Respect is never easy to gain, but when you see people respect you, you find a certain peace in your heart.
PS Recently, I got hooked in a Taiwan-novela. And I think those 2 meannisms were just few of what Ive learned there. Thank you And I Love You (Autumn's Concerto) for all the lessons. It may sound corny but I love the story and how the cast portray their given roles. Thumbs up. Plus, this is the first ever show that i spent almost the whole-day til dawn watching.
now i better hit the sheets. xxx
the little kid
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