To love: To hate.

photo I got from Google

Everyone of us gets to experience this little anger, displeasure and little dismay over someone we know or some other people.

I think the lesson that we could always get from that is.. it's just mind over matter. If they can not change those annoying attitude, might as well, just.. don't mind it. At the end of the day, you are the one who can understand better or, more likely, you are the one who is capable of ignoring and moving on or let's just say, you are the one who possesses the right amount of balance on interacting with other people.

Time will come that you'll get tired of hating the other person. Why? Because it is not even worth it. Time will come that you'll get used to it and you will no longer mind it. Time will come that you'll realize that there is no point in hating. Time will come that you will tell this to yourself "I'm glad I chose not to hate".

This is just a short note for those people who choose to love and forgive when they are being tempted to hate. This goes out to everybody, those in a relationship (but I'm not actually writing this because I have some relationship issues). This note could also be for those people who choose not to mind those people who do nothing but imitate them, talk at his/her back, or some other people who try to turn your good mood into bad. This is something everyone can relate into.

There will always be someone or some other people who will annoy you for some reasons that they imitate you or try to be like you or whatsoever, but seriously, let's move on because there is no point in hating. I'm sure we'll get used to it. 

To those who get annoyed when people try to be like them, I think let us just be happy. Let us be happy because people try to be like you no matter how hard you stress out on them that they should always go their way. Well, at least by imitating you, they get to inspire or let's say impress other people like what they have always wanted.

To those who feel bad when a member of the family annoys them, well you already know what to do. Remember the meaning of a family.

To those who are in a relationship who always struggle to understand their partners, I don't know what piece of advice to give you best. Hmm, Choose to love and forgive no matter how hard it can be when you are tempted to find faults in your partner.

Okay, i think I'm all done. Bottomline: Choose to love instead of hating. If you can not atleast love, then  choose not to mind. At the end of the day, it is your decision if you will choose to love or to hate.

Hatred ever kills, love never dies. Such is the vast difference between the two. What is obtained by love is retained for all time. What is obtained by hatred proves a burden in reality for it increases hatred. -M K. Gandhi

Love,

the little kid