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We must be courageous but also reasonable. The world admires us for walking a tightrope without falling off. It asks us to keep our balance." ~ Lech Walesa
These are the beautiful people, who, befitting their rank as gods and goddesses of a powerful modern mythology, lead beautiful lives in beautiful houses, attired in beautiful clothes and, ostensibly, thinking only beautiful thoughts." - Helen Lawrenson.
The Female Libran: Individual
However, because they are so charming and eloquent, Libran women are sometimes taken for air-brains. Anybody who falls into this trap is gravely mistaken. Librans, given their varied interests, are usually very well-read and have logical things to say on myriad subjects. It's just that they are not very crudely vocal about it. Their most firm opinions are packaged in a satin-smooth tone which seldom offends her listeners. Margaret Thatcher, again a Libran, once mirrored this signature scale-bearer diplomacy with her statement, "You don't tell deliberate lies, but sometimes you have to be evasive." A Libran is euphemistic in her approach. She wraps the ugliest truth in a way that its not blatant enough to hurt a soul but at the same time very just and fair. In short, she's smooth and efficient.
A Libra lady is extremely fond of the fineries of life. She adores luxury and and can't keep from buying that exorbitant Jimmy Choo heels once it has caught her fancy. Believe me, they secretly dream about them until they can finally possess their much coveted item of desire. She is the quintessential 'roses and champagne' type. In fact Librans are said to have the best collections of perfumes. They are very particular about smelling good and have a penchant for les parfums les meilleures. In order to fund for these luxuries, most Libran women work. On a negative note, they practice so much indiscretion when it comes to splurging that a lot of bills are cleared with the help of their partners or fathers. Don't judge us as we have our Achilles' heels, too.
Libran women are extremely cultured and tend to develop a leaning towards artistic and creative things in life. Usually they themselves take up and cultivate a particular art form. They are connoisseurs of paintings, dance forms, music and literature. In fact they are often drawn to people who read. Author Katherine Mansfield, a Libran of course, once mentioned that "The pleasure of all reading is doubled when one lives with another who shares the same books.". We love books. Period. In fact my ideal date with a guy would book shopping and then going for coffee at a cozy den. Sublime! In fact Libra women are usually very attracted to good orators. The art of playing with words should be your forté in order to quickly win over this October chick. Even flowery verbiage is attractive to us Librans. Judge us as snobs if you want but at least we have a stronger vocabulary!
Librans never ever dismiss anybody's point of view and never impress their own opinions on others. Whatever they say are most often a judgment created on the basis of careful analysis and much rumination and very morality inclined. Morals rank high in the thinking faculties of the Libran woman. While expressing her views on something her reply will almost never be monosyllabic. She will start off with a very vocal monologue, comprising the pros and cons of something and after much weighing will she arrive at a just, or at least the most fair conclusion. Once justice is attained she will regain her charming composure again. But until then, well let's say things are not that pretty. But once she's made up her mind, it is practically impossible to deter a Libran from her stand.
Libran personality traits may may ideally be described as a true blue 'mixture of opposites'. She is diplomatic and yet would never give up a chance to have an argument. She will chatter away to glory for hours all together, but when it comes to hearing you out, you will find another patient listener with difficulty. She is a very competent worker but at the same time hates to be ordered around. They hate moving at a glacial speed but take the most time to take decisions. They are hell bent on maintaining diplomacy but never refrain from voicing a just opinion even if it involves taking sides. All in all, Libran women are the most confusing people around who sometimes fail to understand their own actions and digressions from their own rules.
The Female Libran: Romantic Partner
"The story of a love is not important - what is important is that one is capable of love. It is perhaps the only glimpse we are permitted of eternity." ~ Helen Hayes.
A truly emotional love situation, even that of a stranger's can deeply stir the female Libra soul. Thus, men should be happy to have a Libran lover as these ladies do everything to keep their love stories glitch-free. However, do not delude yourself with the belief that they will let you dominate and humbly accept everything you say. Gravely mistaken you shall be if you are naïve enough to believe this. When it comes to romance, female Libra characteristics, are manipulative but then again she does it all to win you over and then protect you.
It's the intellect of a Libran woman where this concept can mostly be noted. You see, Libran women are demure, petite and very charming. She will melt your heart with her fantastic flirting skills. Her soft ways will make you want to take her under your wing and protect her. It's only when the romantic ship of your love story has set sail, when the stronger streak of her personality surfaces. Even though she has never insult or belittle you, you shall notice what a strong individual she really is. Even though you realize that she is fully capable of standing on her own, she will never make you feel that she doesn't need that reassuring hand around her waist anymore. And she really believes that. She knows about her strength but she feels that you add to her strength. She is extremely faithful and doesn't even feel the urge to notice one more man in her life, the day she finds her soul-mate. She'll never push her opinions down your throat but will engage you in a very systematic discussion to put forth her reasoning.
A scale-bearer makes her husband her first priority. She will allow nothing to encroach that space. She will love and pamper him. She'll even read up on things that interests you and even learn a language if your mother tongue is different. She might pay equal attention to all the men in the party but understand that she has no real intentions for a single one of them. It's just that her ruling planet makes her naturally inclined towards becoming the heart of the party. A Libran woman enjoys no other success in her life – social, academic and professional if her romantic life is somehow disturbed.
Sexually a Libran is the child of the planet of passion. She has no option but to be good in bed. She is a natural lover – gentle yet fiery. A Libran woman, belonging to the cardinal category, has the sexual appeal strong enough to hook any guy she really wishes to be be with. Rita Hayworth once said that "Every man I've ever known has fallen in love with Gilda and wakened with me." Such is the Libran's magnetic appeal. Most importantly, a Libran enjoys a physical rendezvous most when in love. Not that she doesn't relish it otherwise. After all the Libran actress Carie Fisher admitted that, "I'm fond of kissing. It's part of my job. God sent me down to kiss a lot of people." But she optimally savors it when with a person she is actually in love with. That's who she is. She might feel shy but always do her best to fulfill all your naughty fantasies. Believe me, when a Libran makes love, her sole intention is to satisfy her partner. But, by nature the female scale-bearer is initially a little shy and goes further into her cocoon if she doesn't get any responses from her partner. She needs that assurance that her efforts are actually being noticed and appreciated. So, you as man need to keep this factor in mind even though your girl is an innate coquette and usually knows her moves. Just help her to shed that inhibition and you shall then see how high the sparks fly!
One of the major negative Libra woman characteristics include her swings from the manic to the depressive states and vice versa. In her manic stage, a Libran will not sit for a second. She'll scrub the bottom of the sink in the middle of the night if required. She will not stop until there is nothing else to sweep, iron, straighten or arrange. But this will be invariably followed by the depressive stage when she will suddenly plonk down on the bed and refuse to remove even a hair from her face. She will do nothing really until her body completely rejuvenates and feels fresh again. Things may pile up and cob webs may spring up around her but she won't exercise a muscle until she regains her vitality. So, you should be prepared as the man of the house as her moods dip to do the chores yourself.
So there you have all the possible avatars of a Libran female. As humans, Librans have their pitfalls, but they are committed and loyal, like most women from other signs, working their magic in their unique style, taking help from their specifically designed female Libra characteristics. So go ahead and rise in her love as she gives you the top spot in her heart.
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More studies, Please! :> and so I look for more. Nah, last one study.
A Libran female is total woman, complete with the charming manners and delightful elegance. She can also argue with the convincing male logic and beat you at any argument. However, the male side may come in front of you after sometime. Debate attracts her and she weighs both sides of the situation with total fairness. A Libra girl may start an argument alone and finish it alone, with your contribution being only some occasional comments. While she is arguing with you, she may smile every now and then.
Before you know it, you will feel captivated by her smile and charm. By this time, she would have won the argument as well as your heart. Of course, you won't mind that, since she convinces with such carefully balanced and logical arguments. A typical Libran female characteristics profile includes a constant need to be fair and balanced. The best part is that she presents her case in such a tactful way that you don't feel offended at all. At the same time, she is not stubborn and easily changes her mind if she finds your arguments more logical and convincing.
Solitaire is not their kind of game. A Libra woman never seeks to dominate in a relationship and the husband always gets the respect he deserves. At the same time, she keeps him from making mistakes or taking wrong decisions. He takes the lead and she tries to smooth out the results of his decisions. She will never go against his decisions, but if he's wrong, she will slowly tread him to the correct path. She is emotional, but not while forming opinions or passing judgments. At that point of time, facts are what matters to her the most.
Being suspicious is not one of the personality traits of a Libran girl. She trusts you completely and opening your personal mail will be wrong in her eyes. She expresses her emotions easily and lavishly; you will never find yourself complaining in this aspect. There will be no dearth of charming glances, gentle strokes, affectionate hugs and loving kisses. After marriage, you will never come back to a dirty home. Everything will be spick and span, right from your drawing room to your wife to the kids.
A Libra female loves talking, but she will patiently listen to your monologues too. She is all feminine, where love and romance is concerned. However, when some crisis situation crops up, she will be as strong as any man. She will always be there to help you, motivate you, build up your strength and support you. With children, she will be loving, caring and a little strict, especially where respecting you is concerned. She will dote on them, but they will never come before you. You were the first love of her life and she will never forget that.
She will never let the kids disrespect you and your needs will always come first. If you become too strict with them, she will be there to wipe their tears and give them the chocolate you denied. A Libra woman may become a little imbalanced once in a while. Still, the harmony and balance will return soon and she will become her usual lovable self again. She is one of the few females who can play the princess with the perfect captivating charm and, with as much ease, lend you a supporting hand in crisis. And she melts your heart with that enticing charm and alluring smile too!
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Another. Which is just the same like the two but more simplified.
Libra women are natural leaders and great partners. They are able to experience another’s viewpoint and anticipate his needs in a way that no other sign can. She is calm, cool, and collected, a good strategist, and an accurate sounding board. Life is a mirror and when you look in the eyes of this woman you will find an accurate reflection of your strengths and weaknesses.
LoveLibra women absolutely revel in the superficial trappings of love. Don’t be fooled by their logical and calculating demeanor. They are bound to fall for charm and good looks. Many Libra women prefer appearance over substance and have to learn through experience that sometimes there is too high a price to pay for a pretty package. Libra females value reciprocity, good manners, and they really, truly expect you to read their minds. Read that last sentence over again. They really, truly expect you to read their minds. If you can’t read her mind, she will think you are not her true love.
Work
Libra women adore working in partnership. Even if she is your administrative assistant, call her associate or colleague and she will perform at maximum efficiency. She prefers to work in beautiful surroundings, preferably tastefully decorated. She wants to contribute to your success and considers herself your equal, so you must give her an opportunity to present feedback, and for heaven’s sake listen to what she has to say. Be sure to treat a Libra woman fairly, for this is her core value. The female Libra boss can be ideal. She has a natural sense of authority, is a good strategist, and a just administrator. Who could ask for more? Libra women are noted for their ability to manage people and are born diplomats.
SpiritualityIt was a big day when human beings graduated from vengeance to justice. Libra presides over this quality of moral development, mediating emotions and intellect. Many cultures attribute the workings of the universe to Libra, emphasizing that the harmony of the planets, for example, is maintained by a justifying equilibrium. Libra rules moral dilemmas and many of these Libra women find themselves in triangles to work out issues that separate humans from other creatures. Libra is karma, the Golden Rule, walking a mile in the other guy’s shoes, the entire social fabric, and everything that saves life from being nasty, brutish, and short.
Shadow
Libra women at their worst are passive aggressive and don’t know who they are except in relationship to others. They can think too much and act too little. Balance gives way to paralysis. Their ability to detach may lead them to be cold, heartless, and blind in the worst way. Diplomacy can be confused with insincerity and deception. Unconscious female Libras are unaware of their own agenda which they disguise with a sweet appearance and flowery words and justify with convoluted rationalization.
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So there you are, Libran! It was good reading this. Heeh! Try reading yours, too! :) xxx
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